Weekend with Children

Nothing is more fun than spend the weekend with children or our loved ones. Sunday Masses is important to me not just because of the obligation for the masses but the responsibility towards the children. Involving in the Children Liturgy taught me a lot of children behaviours. I feel so grateful took this responsibility as it was my self-reflection to what extent I can do. These children are mirrored for tomorrow. Thanks to those whose willing to spend their time for the children to teach and firmed their faith to face the world of tomorrow.

Last Sunday, my parish has conducted a drawing and colouring contest for the children. I’m not involved in that contest but feel so happy watching them. Something echoes in my heart while looking down on them ‘this is children for tomorrow, a light that walk to the path of future’.

As I said, I spent my weekend with children, my nephew celebrating his 6th years born day. He was so happy surrounding by his aunties and uncle. My sister baked a birthday cake for him..lol.

(a simple and plain birthday cake..hand made)

By the way, I feel blessed surrounding by the kids even tough waves of life never stopped reached my life.

Secrets of Life

While browsing and read through some of my old emails yesterday, I found one email that really bruise my mind. The author dedicated this quotes to all of his retired friends. But somehow, the words are really touched me and I wanted to share it with you. Maybe some of you have read it. The titles of the quotes are ‘The Secrets of life’.

The secrets of Life in 6 words:

• Before middle age – Do not fear

• After middle age – Do not regret


Enjoy your life while you can

• Do not wait till you cannot even walk just to be sorry and to regret

• As long as it is physically possible, visit places you wish to visit

Get out of the stock market!!

• When the share prices are up, your blood pressure goes up too, you want to buy but you cannot get

• When the share prices are down, you panic and want to sell, but no one wish to buy

• You can’t make all the money, why not let the young ones have a chance!

When there is an opportunity, get together with old classmates, old colleagues & old friends. The gathering is not just about eating, the concern is there is not much time left!

Money kept in the banks may not be really yours. When it is time to spend, just spend. You should treat yourself well as you’re getting old!



There are two kinds of food:

1. Things which are good for health – eat often, eat more but that is not everything.

2. Things which are not good for health – eat a little. Eat once a while but do not abstain from them totally.

Whatever you feel like eating, just eat! It is most important to be happy!

Food that you do not feel like eating or do not like, you still need to eat a little once a while, just to balance your nutrition intake!

Treat the sickness with optimism. Whether you are poor, rich, powerful or powerless, everyone will have to go through the process of birth, aging, sickness and death, there is no exception, that’s life!

Do not be afraid or worried when you are sick. Settle all the afraid or worried when you are sick. Settle all the outstanding issues before hand and when you are well, including your funeral arrangements, you will be able to leave this world anytime, without regret!

Let the doctors handle your body, let GOD/NATURE handle your life, but be in charge of your own moods!

If worries can cure your sickness, then go ahead and worry!

If worries can prolong your life, then go ahead and worry!

If worries can exchange for happiness, then go ahead and worry!

Our kids will have their own fortune. Things concerning children and grandchildren, we can listen with eyes, just do not open your mouths or make any comments!

The Principles are:

Do not say anything that are fruitless. Do not do anything that is beyond your ability to achieve. If you are in a reactive situation, make your judgement based on the circumstances. If your children and grandchildren are independent, it is your good fortune!

Look After Four Old Treasures

1. The old body – pay more attention to information about health care, you can only rely on yourself to take care of your own health!

2. The retirement funds – money that you have earned, it is best to keep them yourself

3. The old companion – treasure every moment with your other half, one of you will leave first!

4. The old friends – seize every opportunities to meet up with your friends, such opportunities will be rare as time goes by

Do not panic when the lights go off. You can still see lot of stars in the sky with no boundary. There are always ups and downs in life. Since you do not jump for joy when the water vapour rises, why should you feel sad when it rains!

Three things You Must do Everyday

The first thing: Laugh

The second thing: Smile

The third thing: Laugh loudly and to your heart’s content

A wonderful life will always find wonderful reasons. The one who can laugh last, will be the one with the sweetest laugh!

Be determined in doing an appropriate amount of exercises everyday. Have sufficient sleep, maintain a peaceful and cheerful state of mind.

• Instead of scolding people with red faces and swelling blood vessels on the necks

• Why not just adopt more gracious approaches

• It will be less unruly

Laugh a little, it will be like the ocean and the sky with no boundary. There are always ups and downs in life. Since you do not jump for joy when the water vapour rises, why should you feel sad when it rains!

Looking back at my life, unrealized I’ve set a boundaries just to make me feel safe and happy…sigh! Getting older make me realized what is important to live life with no regret.

Here The Weekend

Since these few months I'm longing for holidays. No public holidays for this month and I planned to take a holidays..just a short escape from this hectic life but no clue where to go..lol. Luckily weekend is here and I will make use of it. I dont have any planned for weekend gateway this month and I'm trying to make myself loaded with nice things :). Those negatives energies and emotional interference need to put on rest.

I'm looking forward for this coming weekend. I'm going to hunt the ngiu chap (beef stew) at my favorite place hehehe. I promised to myself that starting next week I will be stick with my diet to get rid the calories in my body. I cant stop eating and snacking these few days. I'm still in my ideal weight but I know those calories would accumulate and turned to fat in a future. However, keeping healthy and enough energies is important plus with exercise... :(. I hate exercising..any alternatives way? hehee...

Those pictures a where my calories come..hahaha. Menus for this five days..lol

Varieties of foods drives me crazy. Locals and westerns restaurants are mushrooming and I cant keep my desire to have a 'food test'!!.

Oh ya...Popular Bookstore and Times having a books fair discount up to 30%. Looking forward to visit there too..lol.

By the way have a blessed weekeend guys...enjoy it. Not everyday we have weekend hehehe...

Lazy Me

Sure everyone has ever feel lazy on Monday..lol. Today I really didn’t want to do anything (well…I did submitted monthly report to the bosses..hehehe). My body in an office but mind at home.. sitting comfortly on a couch, eating snacks and watch TV. I don’t know why I’m always feeling tired. That is the reason I need more sleep but I found the more I sleep the more I get tired. Sometimes I’m tired of sleeping. There is the time I cannot sleep and sometimes cannot get enough sleep.

I don’t even know what happened to me. Spent my weekend wandering around shopping malls and eating whatever I feel to but still cannot get this tired feeling. Well…I’m not physically tired. I’m not even know what to called it.. emotionally tired? I have no idea at all. To think about it also make me tired hahahaa…. Wah! so many of ‘tired’ words today. I better off before I become more tired hahha…

Can’t wait to go home for more lazing time hahaha…

Living Simplicity

I’m pretty sure in our daily lives, we often rush through tasks by trying to get them done, finish as much as we can, speeding along in our cars to do what we need to do here and there and speed to the next destination and doing the same again and again. Unfortunately, it’s often not until we get to our final destination that we realize what madness this all about. We will feel exhausted and stressed out from the grind and the chaos and the busyness of the day. We don’t have time for what’s important to us, for what we really want to be doing, for spending time with loved ones or doing things we’re passionate about. Slowly it leads to monetary life. We see things with dollars sign and unrealized live with it. Sigh…

People don’t see things but talk things. This is what I learned through my current social life. In order to be accepted into their group you need to become one of them or at least like them. They’re pricey people not just in monetary things but spiritually world. I couldn’t accept for what the conditions offered as I believe in one thing, you are what you are. You not belong to anybody but yourself. Accept for who you are then others will accept you (or not..lol). Might sound funny to most of you but that’s what I think through observation and currently practice it. I guess, I just couldn’t have time to be bothered anymore. I don’t care as long as I know the truth and I don’t even hold it against them. So now, whatever I do, as long as I know the truth and happy about it, I don’t get bothered by what others think. Those people have more issues about themselves if they think badly about other people and the more vicious they become the unhappy them about themselves.

Living in simplicity is what I need the most.. for now hehhee. Happy for what I have and dreams for what I don’t have…yet. Hope I’m not walk too far from my route hehhe.

And that's why I turned this situation to ‘as long as I like to involve and help people, I will not hurt them or by them’ as simple as it is…lol.

Peek a bo

Hello there..yup i know its more than a month did not update my blog. Being too much attached with the crazy life but thanks God I still managed to catch up through  FB and Twitter..lolx.  This will be very short update as a comeback hehe..just want to say hello to June hehe...sleepy now, gotta go sleep. Nitey nite..