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A good friend of mine called me today. She’s engaged and in a relationship problems. I know about her problems as I always chat with her parents. I feel pity to her.. or should I?
They break up with anger, tears and end it up. Then, two weeks later, they've made up, talked it out, and together again. Another week later it happens again. Break up, make up, break up, make up, over and over again. After a while, it starts to get routine, and it’s become used to the constant tumultuous relationship. I do remembered they’ve throw the ring twice and make it up again
I wondered why she doesn't just end her chaotic relationship once and for all. Especially when she personally realized that this is an on-going pattern that may never come to a close. As a friend, I prefer her to take a long ‘holiday’ from these kind of stuff coz I really know how suck the impact to her life. The family had advised her too. Maybe these what we caked cinta karas… heheheeee..
Sometimes it’s hard to figure out which position is worse. Is it better constantly watching your friend in this emotional roller coaster or is it better to be one who is somehow stuck, and cannot make the final decision to the end the relationship. I know most of us agree that breakups suck. The most unforgiving part of a breakup is that moment when you start to second guess yourself.
There is never any way of knowing our fate with the one we love or what lies ahead of us, and despite everything, it's always hard to let someone go. To me the only thing we can really do is jump in head-first, listen to our instincts, and most importantly follow our heart.
I don’t know why I write these post.. emmm… no idea maybe.. hehhehee…
They break up with anger, tears and end it up. Then, two weeks later, they've made up, talked it out, and together again. Another week later it happens again. Break up, make up, break up, make up, over and over again. After a while, it starts to get routine, and it’s become used to the constant tumultuous relationship. I do remembered they’ve throw the ring twice and make it up again
I wondered why she doesn't just end her chaotic relationship once and for all. Especially when she personally realized that this is an on-going pattern that may never come to a close. As a friend, I prefer her to take a long ‘holiday’ from these kind of stuff coz I really know how suck the impact to her life. The family had advised her too. Maybe these what we caked cinta karas… heheheeee..
Sometimes it’s hard to figure out which position is worse. Is it better constantly watching your friend in this emotional roller coaster or is it better to be one who is somehow stuck, and cannot make the final decision to the end the relationship. I know most of us agree that breakups suck. The most unforgiving part of a breakup is that moment when you start to second guess yourself.
There is never any way of knowing our fate with the one we love or what lies ahead of us, and despite everything, it's always hard to let someone go. To me the only thing we can really do is jump in head-first, listen to our instincts, and most importantly follow our heart.
I don’t know why I write these post.. emmm… no idea maybe.. hehhehee…
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