Friday, January 7, 2011

The Beauty of silence..

Starting a new day in a new month of the year is not easy. We hope for something new from others like attitude adjustment. This kind of expectation somehow becomes barriers for us to continue a fresh start. I heard a lot of sighing and complained from friends like ‘itu-itu juga perangai, tidak pandai berubah’ (their attitudes are still the same). Then I remembered one quote ‘we can’t change the weather but we can change our attitudes towards its’... something like that. This is a first week of the year, please make it feel like real New Year and stop pointing to others but look deep into!!. Do not try to change others. To change the world, one must change themselves because to blame and complain will only make matters worse. Whatever you care about come with responsibilities because what we see in others show what is in ourselves.

Let peace be around us so we can avoid the negatives environment spreading. The world created by us is a reflection to show the person we are. Remember the good you find in others, is in you too. The faults you find in others are your faults as well. The possibilities you see in others, are possible for you as well. The beauty you see around you is your beauty.

See the best in others, and you will be your best. Give to others, and you give to yourself. Appreciate beauty, and you will be beautiful. Admire creativity, and you will be creative.

Love and you will be loved. Seek to understand, and you will be understood. Listen and your voice will be heard. Teach, and you will learn.

This is the beauty of silence…


  1. Nicely written!! Change yourself first! You decide whether you're happy or pathetic...

  2. Yes, attitude :) but u need to change and train your mindset first :) then, your mindset will guide and make you become a discipline person. Just my thoughts la hehe :)

  3. Aaahhhh......ngam laitu! I also point to the same thing ..ATTITUDE!
    (klu sudi baca latest entry)

  4. Hi Alv, True silence is the rest of the mind, and is to the spirit what sleep is to the body, nourishment and refreshment.
    And reading well is one of the great pleasures that solitude can afford you.

    Our mouth, our body, our ears needs rest often.
    Have a pleasant weekend, Lee.

  5. Chris...yup, the first person to start is ourself..

  6. Archie..that's need attitude of change. Once you change the attitude you can train and change the mindset towards anything your heart desire. Discipline is the second thought also..:)

  7. Honey..yup attitude la yg patut berubah dul..u kan? hehe

  8. Uncle Lee, agree with you. Have a best day ahead too..

  9. Happy New Year!!

    Anyway, please relink me.

    Coffee Girl

  10. Great Motivational post...the beauty of silence, the voice of the soul... Your post provides for much food for thought!
    Loved my visit here, have a wonderful day:)
    My Yatra Diary...

  11. Thanks for sharing, its pretty cool. This year I'm looking forward to take a break and enjoy nature as I go for vacation, well maybe after I find some Texas Hill Country Land For Sale . Anyway I really like your blog and i really appreciate the excellent quality content you are posting here.

  12. The things I find most annoying in others are the things I dislike most about myself.

    So I never say anything to others about what irritates me! LOL

    (my computer volume was turned up high for some reason, and I jumped about a foot in the air when your music player came on!But I love that first song!)

  13. Love what you wrote..I agree absolutely!!