Thursday, August 26, 2010

Alone and Independence..

What is being alone means to me?? To me word ‘alone’ are doing something without accompany of anybody. Almost all the time I dine alone, shopping and buy groceries alone, watch tv-movies alone especially on weekend, went to mass alone, study alone, driving alone and sleep alone.. lol ^-^. For some reason, I prefer to be alone. I can stay in the library with a books for 5 hours straight all by myself. Well…the only thing I want to learn now is to live alone because all of my years I lived with family. I’ll move out soon and live alone. And again I want to do things alone. I have everything in planned. One thing I’m very sure about myself is.. I’m independence in a kind of way.

By the way, I’m not introvert or loner. In fact I like talking (I think this is my traits and I cant stop talking.. non-stop.. I should become a politician hehhe..) hang out with friends and try new things together. Thinking to meet new peoples, coz I think my friends are tired of listening to me..hahhaha.

I am alone most of the time because I don’t really have a choice. Being single (and mingle too… J ) and with only my colleagues, I usually do things on my own and I like it. Sometimes I feel good coz I don’t have to argue with anybody about something or trying hard to ‘buy’ their hearts. The best things is I can do anything without thinking of what the other person might say.

But not all the time being alone is good…take me for example, I like talking…if I alone then whom I want to talk to?. The only things could shut me up is a books… hehhee. So I had decided and enrolled or should I say renewed myself again as a library member after 10 years being expelled from the list…why? My card expired. New to me, no more plastic card to identified you as a member but with an Identity Card. I borrowed a bunch of books to read for this coming weekend and thinking to lock myself in a room. Should I buy some Pringles and cappuccino to complete it? Hehehe...



While we are in the corner of celebrating Independence Day, I want to take this opportunity to wish all Malaysian ‘Happy Independence Day’ and psssttt.. declaring my weekend independence too.. hehehe..



27 comments:

  1. hehe... i love books too. happy reading

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  2. Goldflower..together we are.. happy reading hehehe..

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  3. I enjoyed reading too. I used to lie on a hammock and do some reading.
    But don't be alone too long..call me for a cuppa coffee. :)

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  4. Well, there are times we needed to be alone like reading books while there are times we need company. Just stay balanced. Have a great weekend.

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  5. I can't live alone lol, I'll go nuts hahaha. When you grow old though, you dont want to be alone as life gets broing without a companion.

    Do you love reading mystery books?

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  6. Hello Alv
    love your blog. I've visited you before but I thnk this is the first time I put in my comments..
    Thanks for visiting me in my humble blog.

    Being alone... if by choice, I am all for it, have some peace and escape from the 'humdrum' of life and what better way to be than in books. ..:)

    have a great weekend.

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  7. Honey...I know you love books too. Yup..lets have a cup of coffee and rock that cinema..how's that?..

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  8. Chris..yup stay balanced is all matters..

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  9. Rose..you cant be alone. You have to bring along your family hahaha.. I love mystery books, detective story and all kind of that...you named it hehe..Agatha Christie, Sherlock Holmes, Nancy Drew, Enid Blyton..etc

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  10. Angie, thanks for dropping by. Yup only books, movie and music can comfort me..hehee..

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  11. Oooo... I am a bookworm too. Btw, sometimes, a solitary and quiet life is not that bad.

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  12. Thank for visiting my blog. Happy weekend but be sure u r not alone on this merdeka day.

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  13. happy merdeka day!

    i think being alone would be nice and also not nice at times. up to individuals..

    I like my alone time, but i love time spending with my family more. For this raya, i definitely do not wish to be alone. take care.

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  14. Hi Alv, hey....its not good being alone. Go join a ballroom dancing class, take up cooking lessons, or Karate, or golf, whatever....meet new friends.
    Life is too short to be anything but alone....
    Sometimes we have to take that first step....

    As well give a stranger one of your smiles, it might be the only sunshine she or he sees whole day...and who knows, you get one back.

    Have a beautiful week, keep a song in your heart, Lee.

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  15. how many books you finish ? should do book review la;). hehehe
    i love martina mcbride too. i love the song wrong baby wrong. heehehe

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  16. Cleffairy of course you're book worm too hehe..

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  17. Jay..sure this coming merdeka I'll spend my time with little rascals at home hehehe..Take care too

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  18. Ida..thanks for dropping my blog... Happy Ramadhan to you..

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  19. Uncle Lee...just alone for a while coz I need my space to do things on my own hehhe..yup thinking to join one of the class hehehe..if time permit

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  20. Goldflower..too bad I just finished one book the rest of the day..I spend my time with Astro...sure I'll make a book review. The reading session will continue till tomorrow hehehe..

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  21. hehehe, and if you have ebook. remember me! LLOLOLOL. i have plenty of ebook but *Cough cough*...most of them cooking ebook or self help ebook... hehe. if u wan, just let me know. hehehe.

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  22. i like to do most things alone too until my colleagues think i am a weirdo, haha. don't worry, you're not alone :) i still believe the right companion will come to you when the time is right :)

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  23. Goldflower..thanks!! cooking book good also..

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  24. Jen..you're right and I do believe that

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